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Date: Wed, 09 Apr 2003 22:54:13 -0700
To: "N.O. Organizing List" <no-list@yahoogroups.com>
From: "Agnes Lintz"
Subject: Re: [no-list] Re: Recovery

To me, recovery means being treated like a person not a patient. .. I [had] the poem below framed at work (I unfortunately loaned out and never got returned the book it was from).

To most HMO’s/MH Plans, I would say their idea of recovery is that the person goes unnoticed by the system — no selfish demands for expensive medications or treatments anymore from the person, no expensive hospitalizations calling attention to themselves, no contact with the system except the five minute appt. every three months to passively renew their prescription. In effect, what I would call someone whose spirit was broken they would call a “recovered mental patient.” Just my thoughts late at night.

Agnes Lintz, J.D.

A PERSON AND A PATIENT

We use words in many ways, to understand our being. And we know our point of view affects what we are seeing. A diagnosis is a powerful word, it’s true. For once a “disorder” is defined, it’s the lens that we look through.
A person gets excited: with a patient it is manic.
A person has concerns: with a patient it is panic.
A person is expressive: a patient is histrionic.
A person can get better: while a patient is often chronic.
A person may get angry:a patient becomes agitated.
A person is a creative thinker: a patient’s thoughts are not related.
A person may be sad: a patient is depressed.
A person may be childlike: a patient is regressed.
A person may be cautious: with a patient it is guarded.
A person may change her mind: a patient must finish what she started.
A person may try to influence: a patient manipulates.
A person gets a second opinion: a patient triangulates.
A person is an activist: a patient’s antisocial.
A person is a visionary: a patient is delusional.
A person lives in a home: a patient in a facility.
A person has many strengths: a patient has a disability.
A reminder to us all that mental illness does not nullify personhood. And each and everyone we try to help may not behave as we think They should. Don’t let their illness shift our sights from the gifts That people possess. And we will see the wonder in each life. .. And the joys of each success.

Wally Kisthardt

You Validate My Visions (1996)